Letter to a friend: I still believe I was on the right track with my Real Wild Church. For example, Lucy realises that when I die, she'll be absolutely on her own. She's joining several meetup groups to meet new people and hopefully form strong and lasting relationships. Presently atheists have two things going for them - atheist societies which deal with atheist politics and serious stuff, and atheist meetup groups which get together for informal discussions and/or a beer in a pub. Better tha …